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Can I Get Therapy Without a Doctor's Referral in Kingston, Ontario?
Wondering whether you need a doctor's referral for therapy in Kingston? Here's how private psychotherapy works in Ontario and how to get started.

Limestone Clinic Team
Oct 262 min read


Why Some Men Feel Guarded In Therapy & Why The Wall Makes Sense - Trauma Therapy for Men.
Guardedness in therapy is not a character flaw. For many men, the wall was built for a reason. Ryan Schmidtke, R.P., helps clients slow down, understand what the wall has been protecting, and work toward deeper change through grounded therapy and advanced Brainspotting when appropriate.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Oct 229 min read


Depression Doesn't Always Look Like Sadness: 7 Signs People Miss
Depression is not always tears and obvious sadness. It can look like irritability, brain fog, flatness, withdrawal, or functioning at an enormous personal cost. Limestone therapist Lydia Luchich explains the signs people miss and what therapy can actually do.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Oct 1610 min read


The Anxiety Relief Trap: Why the Anxiety Avoidance Cycle and Reassurance Can Make Anxiety Worse
Avoiding the thing or asking one more time can bring real relief. The catch? That relief may teach anxiety to ask for more. Stéphanie Bédard, RP, explains the cycle and what helps you reclaim your choices.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Oct 1110 min read


Why “Safe Space” Isn’t Enough in Trauma Therapy
Trauma therapy should not feel reckless, shaming, chaotic, or beige. But it also does not need to feel perfectly comfortable every second to be working. Real trauma therapy is grounded, skilled, paced, and trustworthy enough that hard things can happen without leaving you alone in them. You do not need a perfect safe space. You need a capable one.

Taylor Jackson, M.A.
Sep 238 min read


Brainspotting for Burnout: When Insight Isn’t Enough
You can understand your burnout perfectly and still feel unable to change it. A brief, anonymized therapy story shows how Brainspotting can help reveal what insight alone may miss.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Sep 104 min read


Why Therapy Feels Different for Men (And Why That's Exactly the Point)
Society has spent generations teaching men to be independent, resilient, productive, and emotionally self-contained. They're often praised for staying calm under pressure, solving problems, and putting everyone else's needs ahead of their own...Unfortunately, that same conditioning can make it incredibly difficult to ask for help.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Aug 36 min read


Navigating the Emotional Landscape of Infertility: Support and Understanding
Infertility counselling helps get your brain back on your team during a chapter that can make everything feel personal, urgent, and painfully out of your control.

Jessica Lankmann, M.A.
Jul 207 min read


Understanding Trauma-Informed Care: A Guide for Therapy Seekers
"Trauma-informed" sounds reassuring, but what does it actually mean in therapy? Here is how to spot the difference between a therapist who uses the label and one who can safely, skillfully help you do the work.

Taylor Jackson, M.A.
Jun 277 min read


Understanding the Role and Applications of Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy is often misunderstood as a vague or purely talk-based process. In reality, it is a precise, skill-driven intervention grounded in neuroscience and clinical expertise. At Limestone Clinic, we approach therapy as a strategic, nervous-system-informed practice designed to produce measurable change. Our clients are motivated adults and couples ready to engage actively in therapy that moves the needle on anxiety, burnout, trauma, relationship strain, and high-functio

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Jun 164 min read


The 8 Areas That Actually Predict Independent Practice Readiness
A sustainable independent practice needs more than clinical skill — it needs systems, structure, and enough bandwidth to hold steady when life gets busy. Most therapists are drawn to independent practice for very understandable reasons. More flexibility. More autonomy. A caseload that actually fits their strengths. Less agency politics. More room to do good work without feeling like they’re being slowly turned into a crispy little clinical french fry. Lovely. Reasonable. Deep

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Jun 106 min read


Prize Draw from Our Learn-to-Play Pickleball Nights in Kingston
A quick recap from Limestone Clinic’s Learn-to-Play Pickleball Nights in Kingston, including our prize draw video and details about upcoming community pickleball events.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
May 262 min read


Unlocking the Mind: The Psychotherapy Benefits for Mental Wellness
Alright, let’s get real. Life throws curveballs like a pro pitcher on steroids. Stress, anxiety, relationship drama, or just the daily grind can mess with your headspace. So, what’s the secret sauce to keeping your mental wellness in check? Enter the world of psychotherapy . Yep, that fancy word for talking to someone who actually knows what they’re doing when it comes to helping you and your brain. Let me take you on a wild ride through the role of psychotherapy in mental we

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Feb 65 min read


What Is Brainspotting, REALLY?
Brainspotting is not about fixing symptoms or finding answers.
It is about creating a precise, respectful frame where the nervous system can do what it already knows how to do when it finally has the space.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Jan 235 min read


The Benefits of Life Coaching Services
Life coaching is your secret weapon for ditching the blah and building momentum. Here's what it is, how it helps, and why it just might be for you.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Oct 29, 20255 min read


Therapy That Doesn’t Suck: Real Tools for Healing from Trauma
Healing from trauma doesn’t have to feel impossible — or boring. This real-talk guide breaks down the most effective trauma therapies (like Brainspotting, EMDR, CBT, and Somatic Experiencing) that actually work. Learn how these science-backed approaches help your brain and body recover, reconnect, and finally feel safe again. Written by the team at Limestone Clinic Kingston Counselling & Psychotherapy — your no-fluff healing zone.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Oct 13, 20257 min read


The Therapist Matchmaking Process: How Limestone Clinic Ensures a Real Fit
At Limestone Clinic in Kingston, finding the right therapist starts with connection, not guesswork. Our Client Care Coordinator, Alicia, uses a personalized, human-first approach to match clients with therapists based on expertise, communication style, and real needs—so therapy has the best chance to succeed from the start.

Limestone Clinic Team
Jul 13, 20258 min read


Your Therapist Probably Doesn't Know What They're Doing
That 'crickets' moment when your therapist realizes the weekend workshop didn't cover... this 🦗 Ok. I'll Say It. The Odds Are Good That...

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Jul 7, 20258 min read


Assertiveness and Boundaries: How to Communicate Your Needs Without Feeling Harsh (How to Set Healthy Boundaries)
Healthy communication starts with calm, respectful conversations—just like this. Understanding Assertiveness and Boundaries: Teaching vs....

Taylor Jackson, M.A.
Jun 24, 20253 min read


The Hard Truth: What It’s Really Like to Engage in Psychotherapy
If you're reading this, you’re probably considering psychotherapy. Welcome. We’re glad you’re here — and yes, we know this can be a weird place to find yourself. Our goal? Demystify what therapy actually is and isn’t, and help you figure out whether you’re ready to dive in.

Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
Jun 5, 20254 min read
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