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Effective Trauma Therapies for Healing

  • Writer: Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
    Dr. Kris Boksman, C.Psych
  • 5 days ago
  • 5 min read

Alright, buckle up buttercup. We’re diving into the wild world of healing from trauma. Yeah, that heavy stuff that messes with your head and heart. But don’t worry, this isn’t your typical boring therapy lecture. I’m here to break down the best, most effective trauma therapies out there with a sprinkle of sass and a dash of real talk. Ready? Let’s roll.


Effective Trauma Therapies That Actually Work


First things first - therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all. What works for your neighbour’s cousin’s dog walker might not work for you. But here’s the good news: there are some rockstar therapies that have been proven to help people heal faster and better. Let’s check out the heavy hitters.


1. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Brainspotting


Sounds fancy, right? EMDR and Brainspotting are like the brain’s version of spring cleaning. These "midbrain therapies" help you process traumatic memories by guiding your eyes to specific positions while you recall the event or feel how the event makes you feel in your body and feelings. Weird? Maybe. Effective? Heck yes.


Why it rocks:

  • Helps reduce the emotional charge of traumatic memories, naturally, using your brain's inborn trauma release mechanisms present in your optic pathways.

  • Works faster than traditional talk therapy for many.

  • No need to relive the trauma in full detail (phew) -- [note from Dr. Kris - sometimes to get all the bad juju out, this is effective, so no promises.]


Imagine your brain is a messy closet. EMDR and Brainspotting are the Marie Kondo of therapy, helping you organize those painful memories so they don’t take up all the space.


Learn more about Brainspotting Therapy in Kingston — our clinic’s favourite “deep brain” approach for trauma that talk therapy alone can’t reach.


Close-up view of a therapist’s hand guiding eye movement during EMDR session
EMDR therapy uses our eyes to access regulatory structures in the brain to result in therapy that gets faster results than talk therapy, alone.

2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) & Cognitive Processing Therapy


CBT is the classic. It’s like the Swiss Army knife of mental health. This therapy helps you spot and change the negative thought patterns that trauma loves to feed on. Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) is the application of these tried-and-true and researched-to-heck methods with a very specific focus on the types of cognitions that are impacted negatively by trauma.


Why these are a winner:

  • They teach practical skills to manage anxiety and depression.

  • They help you challenge and reframe harmful beliefs.

  • Can be done individually or in groups.


Think of CBT as your brain’s personal trainer, whipping those thoughts into shape so they stop sabotaging your day. CPT is the specialist in recuperating injured shoulders who knows exactly what exercises to do in what order to get your shoulder back in Cirque-Du-Soleil shape again.


Curious how this looks in real life? Check out our Talk Therapy Services — where CBT and other evidence-based tools meet real talk and results.


3. Somatic Experiencing


Here’s where things get a bit funky but in a good way. Somatic Experiencing focuses on the body’s sensations rather than just the mind. Trauma often gets stuck in your body like a bad song stuck on repeat.


Why it’s cool:

  • Releases physical tension caused by trauma.

  • Helps you reconnect with your body.

  • Uses gentle movements and awareness, no heavy talking required.


Picture your body as a balloon that’s been squeezed too tight. Somatic Experiencing helps you slowly let the air out without popping.


Many of our therapists use somatic and body-based approaches. You can explore them on our Trauma & PTSD Therapy page.


Eye-level view of a calm therapy room with a yoga mat and cushions
A somatic Experiencing therapy space

4. Narrative Therapy


Got a story to tell? Narrative therapy helps you rewrite the script of your life. Instead of being the victim, you become the author of your own epic saga.


Why it’s empowering:

  • Separates you from your problems.

  • Helps you find meaning and strength in your experiences.

  • Encourages creativity and self-expression.


It’s like turning your trauma into a plot twist that makes your story way more interesting.


If you’re drawn to meaning-making and self-discovery, our Online Therapy Services make it easy to work on your story from home.


5. Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)


Mindfulness isn’t just for hippies and yoga lovers. MBSR teaches you to be present and chill, even when your brain wants to freak out.


Why it’s handy:

  • Reduces stress and anxiety.

  • Improves emotional regulation.

  • Can be practiced anywhere, anytime.


Think of it as your mental chill pill that you can carry in your pocket.


Mindfulness is a core part of many healing approaches at Limestone. Learn how it fits into our Anxiety Therapy and Depression Therapy.


High angle view of a peaceful meditation corner with cushions and soft lighting
Mindfulness meditation space (if you have no kids, pets, dust, or furniture).

What is the definition of trauma?


Okay, let’s get down to basics. What exactly is trauma? It’s not just about big, dramatic events like car crashes or natural disasters. Trauma is any experience that overwhelms your ability to cope. It can be a one-time event or ongoing stuff like emotional neglect or bullying.


Here’s the deal:

  • Trauma messes with your brain’s wiring (but it does not have to be a permanent frazzle).

  • It can cause flashbacks, anxiety, and mood swings.

  • It often hides behind everyday struggles like insomnia or irritability, and yes, even behind garden-variety depression and even burnout.


Understanding trauma is the first step to kicking its butt. It’s like knowing your enemy before you go to battle.


How to Choose the Right Therapy for You


So many options, so little time. How do you pick the therapy that won’t make you want to run for the hills?


Here’s a quick cheat sheet:

  • If you hate talking about feelings but want results fast: Try Brainspotting, EMDR or Somatic Experiencing.

  • If you love logic and problem-solving: CBT/CPT is your jam.

  • If you want to tell your story and find meaning: Narrative therapy rocks.

  • If you want to calm your mind and body: Mindfulness is your best friend.


Pro tip: Don’t be shy about mixing and matching. Oftentimes a combo of therapies is the secret sauce.


If you’re still not sure which approach fits, try our free Therapist Match Quiz to find your therapy style soulmate.


Taking the First Step: What to Expect in Therapy


Walking into therapy can feel like stepping into the unknown. Spoiler alert: it’s not as scary as you think.


Here’s what usually happens:

  • You’ll chat about what brought you in.

  • The therapist will ask questions to understand your story.

  • Together, you’ll set goals and pick the best therapy approach.

  • Sessions might feel intense but also like a safe space to unload.


Remember, therapy is a two-way street. You’re the boss of your healing journey. And, our therapists have the street-cred to help you level up, Boss.


Prefer a quick start? Our Walk-In Therapy appointments make it easy to test-drive therapy without a long wait.


Keep the Momentum Going: Tips for Healing Outside Therapy


Therapy is awesome, but healing doesn’t stop when you leave the office. Here’s how to keep the good vibes rolling:


  • Journal your thoughts and feelings. It’s like talking to yourself but less weird.

  • Practice mindfulness daily. Even 5 minutes counts.

  • Get moving. Exercise releases feel-good chemicals.

  • Connect with supportive people. Isolation is the enemy.

  • Set small, achievable goals. Celebrate every win, no matter how tiny.


Healing is a marathon, not a sprint. Pace yourself and keep your eyes on the prize.



There you have it - a no-nonsense, fun, and practical guide to effective trauma therapies. If you’re ready to take control and start feeling better, remember that help is just a click away. Healing is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.


Ready to kickstart your journey? Check out the therapy professionals at Limestone Clinic for top-notch support in Kingston and Eastern Ontario. Your future self will thank you.


💪 You’ve got this — and we’ve got your back.


Healing from trauma takes courage, but you don’t have to do it solo.


Book your free Discovery Call today and meet a therapist who actually gets it.

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